About six weeks ago, Ciara and I decided that our house is probably too small to introduce another child into, as well as our mortgage-payment-to-house-size ratio becoming more and more unjustifiable. We decided it was time to sell, in hopes we could be out of there before the baby is born. Meeting with the realtor, we found a few things that needed to be done, some big, some small. We gave ourselves a deadline and went at it.
Today, we are done.
I have been reflecting on the last six weeks, and the absolute outpouring of blessing on our family. It’s been really easy to take it for granted, until looking back and seeing all of it. From friends and family coming and doing tile in the bathroom, doing the floors in the kitchen and bathroom, painting with us, cleaning, looking at our furnace, to financial blessings here and there (and without this, Christmas probably wouldn’t have happened this year), and even as simple as just being with us, spending time with us, and praying for us. It’s crazy and beautiful to see what a community of people will do for one another. Especially a community deeply rooted in a love for Christ.
As I was reflecting on this yesterday, a piece of scripture popped into my mind:
“For where two or three have gathered together in My name, I am there in their midst.” – Matthew 18:20
Everything in me starts screaming “out of context!” Which is true. Using that scripture in this specific context does go against pretty much every part of my personal hermeneutic. But I also do believe that the the Word is a Living Word, and in this case, I really do think that there is something to this scripture as it relates to this situation.
In context, the verse is one of many talking about interpersonal relationships. We often use this verse to talk about God’s presence in our worship and fellowship gatherings, which personally I think is kind of a weak interpretation, but it kind of works in a feel-good way. The context is all talking about how relate to one another, especially in confronting one another and dealing with sin amongst our community. But in that context of interpersonal relationships, I think it kind of works here.
I think it speaks a lot to a community of believers. We are made to be in community with one another. We are created in the image of a triune God, a God that eternally lives in community. Here we are, friends and family firmly rooted in Christ, and one family is in need, and literally EVERYONE steps up in their own ways and using their own gifts. In this type of community relationship, I find it impossible to NOT see God’s hand or feel His presence in it. I can’t take a step without bumping into Him somehow. It’s a beautiful thing, and I hope to keep experiencing it more and more, and give back in the same way that I’ve been given such blessing.
So, if you are reading this and you have directly been a part of our process over the last six weeks, thanks. We truly are “two or three” (which I think is just a way of saying people together) gathered in His name. And He is undeniably in our midst.

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So true! Loved reading this, thanks for sharing
I love this. And am curious to what the right context is to use this scripture.
You and Rowan and Ciara are so loved.
Thanks ladies.
Candis, I’m not sure I have my interpretation of context just right. I was just saying what was coming to me the last couple of days. Certain people’s hermeneutic (that is, method for interpreting scripture) is that the Word is completely transcendent of context, which is fine most of the time, but in my opinion can turn into picking and choosing, and then in turn using scripture to back up one’s own personal ideologies. I am really big on interpreting scripture in light of the context it sits in, and in some cases the culture and history of the context.
In this particular case, the preceding verses have Jesus explaining how to deal with interpersonal relationships in the community, specifically sin. It’s often been used to kick people out of the church, etc, but the way Jesus words things, if read carefully, are actually very beautiful and very full of grace.
The scripture I quoted and the verse before it (binding and loosing), seem somewhat disconnected from the preceding verses, so I don’t know exactly the context, but since it’s in the middle of talking about communal relationships, I assume that it is related to that.
But that’s just how I see it. However the scripture speaks to you is cool with me.
awesome.
can’t wait till you plant a church in westgate.